“There were too many people, too much noise. The very air was irritable and exhausted and spent.” — Daphne du Maurier
Ever walked into a noisy crowd and felt like you just wanted to disappear? Not out of sadness, but because the whole thing just felt... too much?
You’re not alone. And no, nothing is wrong with you.
As we grow older, something shifts. The buzz of large gatherings, the noise, the constant chatter—it starts to feel draining, not energizing. You begin to crave quiet. You find joy in solitude or the calm presence of one or two people you really connect with. That’s not loneliness. That’s maturity.
When we’re younger, we often chase people, parties, noise, and attention. That’s normal. But over time, we start realizing peace feels better than attention. Silence feels better than small talk. Solitude becomes not something to escape from—but something to look forward to.
And here's the beautiful part—you start becoming your own best company. You learn to enjoy your thoughts. Your routines. Your books. Your walks. You’re not avoiding people. You’re just being kind to yourself.
So don’t feel guilty if loud spaces now feel suffocating. Don’t feel odd if you’d rather stay in than go to a big event. That’s growth. That’s your soul finally catching its breath.
In solitude, you are in charge. You choose the mood. The pace. The energy. It’s freedom, not isolation.
So embrace it. Love it. Look forward to it.
Your peaceful self is the best company you’ll ever have.
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