What do we want be like?
A honeybee or a housefly?
Honeybee always spots good things. It finds a nice flower full of nectar. It extracts the nectar without hurting the flower. In the process, gathers some pollen and thus helps in pollination. After this delicate work, it gets busy and creates fabulous honey for us.
Housefly, on the other hand, always focuses on what is disgusting, dirty and full of germs. Lousier and dirtier the stuff, better it is for the housefly. There is some real yucky, grimy stuff, house fly is there to squat on it. Grab all the dirt, germs, bacteria etc. and ready to go elsewhere and contaminate that using all the germs it picked up from the previous rotten place. Deadly diseases like cholera are spread mainly by houseflies.
Honeybee is attracted to what is good. Housefly is attracted to what is bad and rotten.
Being like honeybee means we focus on what's good in others.
Being like a housefly means we focus on what's bad in others.
Nobody is perfect.
Everyone has a good measure of good and bad.
But, we can make a deliberate decision to focus on any and every good in others. That way we can probably get some honey out of anybody.
Of course, we can become pessimists. That's akin to being a house fly. We focus on the negatives. That will frustrate us. We will take that frustration on somebody else. That will pollute the environment.
Honeybee pollinates where as housefly pollutes.
I do not want the stigma attached to the housefly.
Choose to be a honeybee!
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